I've been invited to a bachelorette party. In Puerto Rico. For the 4th of July long weekend.
Expensive, of course. Tickets there, hotel, drinks, entertainment. And we will probably have to pay for the bride (though she can definitely afford it). Not sure how that aspect works.
My DH generously offered to watch the baby all weekend by himself and does not mind me spending the money. Still, it is money that could go towards our common vacation.
Also, the only person I really know there is the bride. I've only met the others maybe once or twice.
On the other hand, it is a new experience. I've never been on an away multi-day bachelorette party you fly to. However, these people are not too wild. Bride does not even drink! (others might though).
Bachelorette party dilemma. Should I go?
April 30th, 2013 at 04:45 pm
April 30th, 2013 at 04:47 pm 1367340453
One thing to note: there will be considerable expense to attend the actual wedding, (travel and hotel if not nearby) not to mention a gift.
Make that part of your overall decision in how much to spend.
April 30th, 2013 at 05:48 pm 1367344125
April 30th, 2013 at 06:29 pm 1367346547
Also, I would decline. I mean, if you do go, the Bachelorette can at the very least pay her own way. That's just ridiculous - "Hey, I want a free vacation to Puerto Rico, Hey Ladies, guess where we're going - oh! And you get to pay my travel costs" I'd have some choice words if I was in your shoes...
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May 5th, 2013 at 01:46 pm 1367761603
If you want to go because it sounds fun, then go. Otherwise, "I'm so sorry, I'm unable to make this event" should suffice just fine.