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    <title>Brooklyn Girl's Personal Finance Blog</title>
    <link>http://brooklyngirl.savingadvice.com</link>
    <description>Striving to improve the quality of life by making choices more thoughtfully.</description>
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      <title>Update on the apartment</title>
      <link>http://brooklyngirl.savingadvice.com/2009/11/06/update-on-the-apartment_54901/</link>
      <description>We offered 290K.  &lt;br /&gt;
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Realtor believed it was a good offer.&lt;br /&gt;
It was declined a day and a half later.&lt;br /&gt;
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Today (realtor was trying to convince the seller for 2 days) she came back saying she is willing to sell it for 315K.  &lt;br /&gt;
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She is being very emotional about it.&lt;br /&gt;
She originally listed...</description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2009 20:19:14 PST</pubDate>
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      <title>Made an offer!</title>
      <link>http://brooklyngirl.savingadvice.com/2009/11/03/made-an-offer_54795/</link>
      <description>Now we have to wait.  &lt;br /&gt;
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We bid on............ #1!&lt;br /&gt;
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Thank you for all your feedback.  I was leaning towards #1 as well, because #2, as wonderful and lovely as it is, was really a financial stretch.  &lt;br /&gt;
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I know the common &quot;stretch at first, you'll be glad later when you grow into...</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2009 11:34:15 PST</pubDate>
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      <title>Our apartment -- here are two final choices with pictures </title>
      <link>http://brooklyngirl.savingadvice.com/2009/11/02/our-apartment-here-are-two-final-choices_54761/</link>
      <description>Sorry about being absent so much - we've were spending all of our free time apartment hunting.&lt;br /&gt;
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We narrowed it down to 2 choices, in a nice area of Bronx.   &lt;br /&gt;
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Here are their pros and cons.  &lt;br /&gt;
Apartment 1 (the one I previously described)&lt;br /&gt;
Pros: cheap 320K, $700 monthly maintenance&lt;br /&gt;
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      <pubDate>Mon, 02 Nov 2009 13:28:54 PST</pubDate>
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      <title>Saw 2 apartments I can afford!  In Bronx :o.  Which one would you choose?</title>
      <link>http://brooklyngirl.savingadvice.com/2009/10/26/saw-2-apartments-i-can-afford-in-bronx-o_54580/</link>
      <description>Both have issues. &lt;br /&gt;
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One is lovely, good light, good condition, walkable to MetroNorth, facing park, good condition and layout.  The problem?  2nd beroom and kitchen face a very busy highway that goes out of NYC (traffic never stops there)  And you can hear it a little, even with...</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 26 Oct 2009 07:19:23 PST</pubDate>
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      <title>Studying a foreign language is a cheap and rewarding hobby.</title>
      <link>http://brooklyngirl.savingadvice.com/2009/10/19/studying-language-a-cheap-and-rewarding-_54418/</link>
      <description>It is a useful one, no doubt.  It helps you connect faster with other people, it makes travel more freeing, authentic and enjoyable, and very often &acirc;€“ cheaper.  &lt;br /&gt;
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It makes you more open-minded and more familiar with other cultures.  It can help your career (I believe speaking 4...</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 19 Oct 2009 08:00:13 PST</pubDate>
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      <title>Help me dress DH - a fasion question.</title>
      <link>http://brooklyngirl.savingadvice.com/2009/10/15/help-me-dress-dh-fasion-question_54333/</link>
      <description>I just bought 2 nice silk ties for DH, now I am thinking how to pair them. &lt;br /&gt;
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The first one, I think I have an idea.&lt;br /&gt;
I think it would go well with a very very light pink shirt and dark navy(almost black) suit.  White shirt also good.&lt;br /&gt;
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The second one, however, is a challenge:...</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 15 Oct 2009 09:43:23 PST</pubDate>
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      <title>This was the dream that I lost.</title>
      <link>http://brooklyngirl.savingadvice.com/2009/10/07/this-was-the-dream-that-i-lost_54159/</link>
      <description>That I came so close to having - it was the best apartment in our price range that I have seen to date:&lt;br /&gt;
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It was large, it had a tonn of closet space, the views were nice, everything was thought out, it was mint, it was close to the subway, it was in a...</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 07 Oct 2009 14:33:55 PST</pubDate>
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      <title>We made another offer!  I'm very nervous. </title>
      <link>http://brooklyngirl.savingadvice.com/2009/10/06/we-made-another-offer-im-very-nervous-_54140/</link>
      <description>For far more money.  Pretty much at the limit of what we can afford:  500K with $1,200 monthly maintenance.&lt;br /&gt;
It is a real 1 bedroom though, not Junior.&lt;br /&gt;
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Can it all work out?  I have spend so much time, energy and nerves looking for a place.  &lt;br /&gt;
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I fear that our offer won't be accepted...</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 06 Oct 2009 20:27:49 PST</pubDate>
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      <title>September spending totals</title>
      <link>http://brooklyngirl.savingadvice.com/2009/09/30/september-totals_53980/</link>
      <description>rent 	                $994&lt;br /&gt;
electric	                $77&lt;br /&gt;
gas   	                $12.94&lt;br /&gt;
medical	                $78&lt;br /&gt;
health     	        $49 &lt;br /&gt;
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groceries	        $417&lt;br /&gt;
Lunch me	        $67.77&lt;br /&gt;
Lunch DH	        $90.68&lt;br /&gt;
eating out	        $172.2&lt;br /&gt;
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pets         	        $23.87		&lt;br /&gt;
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      <pubDate>Wed, 30 Sep 2009 19:17:00 PST</pubDate>
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      <title>What the world eats - one week's worth of food</title>
      <link>http://brooklyngirl.savingadvice.com/2009/09/22/what-the-world-eats-weeks-worth-of-food_53776/</link>
      <description>I just came across this slide show on MSN money:&lt;br /&gt;
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http://articles.moneycentral.msn.com/CollegeAndFamily/RaiseKids/what-the-world-eats.aspx?slide-number=1&lt;br /&gt;
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North Carolina&lt;br /&gt;
Cost of a week's worth of food: $377.20 &lt;br /&gt;
This is 1 photo from an 11 photo slide show (I don't think this...</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 22 Sep 2009 11:58:56 PST</pubDate>
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      <title>So many neighbors with financial problems. </title>
      <link>http://brooklyngirl.savingadvice.com/2009/09/20/so-many-neighbors-with-financial-problem_53725/</link>
      <description>I live in a small apartment building and I happen to know financial situations of many neighbors, and I happen to be only one without debt (with the exception of a student loan). &lt;br /&gt;
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Their problems range from cc debt, to months behind on rent, to collection issues... &lt;br /&gt;
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I know that...</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 20 Sep 2009 23:08:19 PST</pubDate>
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      <title>Made an offer!</title>
      <link>http://brooklyngirl.savingadvice.com/2009/09/19/made-an-offer_53695/</link>
      <description>For the first time in our lives we made an offer on an apartment (co-op). We offered significantly under the asking price, so I doubt it will be accepted.  And there are so many other &quot;ifs&quot; in the arrangement...&lt;br /&gt;
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But than again, what if?  &lt;br /&gt;
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      <pubDate>Sat, 19 Sep 2009 13:41:22 PST</pubDate>
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      <title>My birthday gifts</title>
      <link>http://brooklyngirl.savingadvice.com/2009/09/13/my-birthday-gifts_53573/</link>
      <description>Today is my birthday.  I got a brand new ipod Touch (16GB one) and $300 to buy what I would like.  And flowers, of course.   And hot breakfast in the morning.  Not a healthy one, but very delicious(crapes).  It is OK on special occasions.&lt;br /&gt;
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I am now relaxing in a completely clean...</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 13 Sep 2009 10:22:03 PST</pubDate>
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      <title>$600-$940 for 1 down pillow?  </title>
      <link>http://brooklyngirl.savingadvice.com/2009/09/11/600-940-for-1-down-pillow-_53544/</link>
      <description>Scandia down makes probably world's most expensive pillow: &lt;br /&gt;
http://www.scandiadown.com/&lt;br /&gt;
I really don't know if they are worth it (I guess if you are very rich, maybe).&lt;br /&gt;
But since I am not rich, I would not buy a pillow for that much money.  &lt;br /&gt;
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But, there was one on sample sale for...</description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 08:01:13 PST</pubDate>
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      <title>What would a good friend do?</title>
      <link>http://brooklyngirl.savingadvice.com/2009/09/09/what-would-a-good-friend-do_53509/</link>
      <description>I have a friend who lives in another city.  &lt;br /&gt;
She is very inexperienced with men(never had a boyfriend) and does not have a relistic view of anything that has to do with men.  &lt;br /&gt;
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When she is telling me about another guy she met online, from what she is describing, I can see a lot...</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2009 13:16:30 PST</pubDate>
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      <title>Kitchen of a $500,000 apartment</title>
      <link>http://brooklyngirl.savingadvice.com/2009/09/08/kitchen-of-a-500000-apartment_53478/</link>
      <description>That we are seriously considering.  We got as far as requesting co-op financials.  This seems like a nice place in a good location.  40 blocks from work. I can walk and not depend on transportation!  There is a park, it is a quiet street...  I want it.&lt;br /&gt;
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However, this is a Manhattan...</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 08 Sep 2009 07:18:05 PST</pubDate>
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      <title>I need to study for my exam or pay the fee</title>
      <link>http://brooklyngirl.savingadvice.com/2009/09/03/i-need-to-study-for-my-exam-or-pay-the-f_53392/</link>
      <description>Final exam for my Chinese class is on Wednesday.  &lt;br /&gt;
I am disturbingly unprepared.  I have not opened a book since I came back from China. &lt;br /&gt;
I really need to spend the weekend studying! &lt;br /&gt;
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My job provides me with opportunity to study the language for free, but if I fail the exam I...</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 03 Sep 2009 19:50:46 PST</pubDate>
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      <title>The 100 points game</title>
      <link>http://brooklyngirl.savingadvice.com/2009/09/01/the-100-points-game_53325/</link>
      <description>It is like a financial drinking game.  &lt;br /&gt;
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Any day the DOW is down more than 100 points by 2:50 pm I manually add $100 or $150 to a mutual fund(besides the auto invest for the ROTH) to buy shares based on that day's clothing price. &lt;br /&gt;
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I look up which sector is falling and try to put...</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2009 12:53:23 PST</pubDate>
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      <title>September - new month, new start</title>
      <link>http://brooklyngirl.savingadvice.com/2009/08/31/september-new-month-new-start_53295/</link>
      <description>I know I have fell off the wagon for the last few month.  I am about to start with new resolve.  &lt;br /&gt;
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In September I will track our expenses to the cent.  &lt;br /&gt;
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My goals are to keep as close to our projected &quot;if we buy a coop&quot; budget as possible.  &lt;br /&gt;
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That includes spending under $500...</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 31 Aug 2009 10:51:44 PST</pubDate>
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      <title>Physical processed,  life insurance rate is finalized.</title>
      <link>http://brooklyngirl.savingadvice.com/2009/08/27/physical-processed-life-insurance-rate-i_53225/</link>
      <description>So the results of our physicals are in.  &lt;br /&gt;
There are good news, and there are bad news.&lt;br /&gt;
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The good news is I am super-preferred.  &lt;br /&gt;
My rate is even cheaper than what the agent quoted based on my answers.  &lt;br /&gt;
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The bad news is, DH's quote is $72 a month!!!!! at 27!  He had a car accident...</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 27 Aug 2009 12:50:10 PST</pubDate>
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